But then they can find an excuse to say they are very strong, do not need a person to accompany, may be very hypocritical it is.

但是之后自己可以找个借口说自己很坚强，不需要人陪，可能很虚伪是吧。

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If a person becomes too much accustomed to hypocritical modesty in word and refuses to let go of his conceit in his heart (we often mistake it for confidence), he will never make any further progress.

如果我们太习惯于那种客套话式的虚伪谦虚，不肯放弃自己心里的傲慢（我们经常误以为这个叫自信），就真的是无法进步了。

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The ultimate contempt and such person shall not see, I think that they contrast with the facts, they do not always tell the truth finally decided that they are heterogeneous, people are hypocritical.

而最终鄙视和见不得这类人，我觉得他们与事实相反，他们一味地不说真话最终决定了他们是异类、是虚伪的人。

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